Doesn't it suck when you see your ex with another person? I mean, you fool yourself to say that you're over your ex, but when you see them with their new significant other, it just kills you inside. I just experienced that. I mean, I was fortunate enough to not see them face to face or kissing or anything, but it still was not easy to see. I was lucky enough just to see it in a picture.
I mean, this was not just another ex boyfriend or anything, this was my ex fiance, it was someone very very special to me, and I saw him with his new girl. Keep in mind that he left me to go to this girl when we were going to get married, actually right in the middle of our wedding plans, he left me. So needless to say that I am not 100% over him and what he did to me.
A few people have told me that it may be for the better that me and him did not get married, but I was ready to get married, and I was ready to spend the rest of my life with this person and he just leaves me, of course it hurts seeing him with someone else.
Maybe I'm overreacting, I mean, 10 people can not be wrong. I don't think I will ever be 100% over him, he was my first and only fiance at this point. Hopefully one day, I'll stop suffering.
Karen
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I guess I should be thankful that hasn't happened to me. I'm really sorry to hear that because it must be a painful site to behold. Hey, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger right?
Don't worry, everyone goes through that. When I saw my ex with another girl, even though I knew I was over him, it still hurt because I saw that he was with someone else. I don't know how to explain it, there's some kind of competition on who finds the next girlfriend/boyfriend first after the break up. When you see that your ex has found someone else before you, you feel as if they were good enough to find someone else and you weren't. And I'm sure it's even worse when you still have some feelings for the person. Don't worry, it's normal, and you'll soon feel better with time.
I was with my ex for five years and I thought that he was "the one" for me. But we ended up breaking up and it was hard when I saw him with his new girl. But eventually, slowly, you get over it. Its just a matter of time before your ex turns into just that guy and things happen for a reason.
Don't let it get to you. It hurts. Heartbreak is not easy. But with time, the heart mends itself. Then, you spot a local hottie, one you had never noticed because you were with the ex. So don't worry, be happy. All the pieces of your life will soon start to come together.
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